I don't know how many people actually read my blog, or even care. But, I really don't care because this is a sounding board for me, for the most part. Since, I don't make friends easily. That comes from having a troubled childhood.
I hate that people have these little traits, habits, and so forth that society deems in a way that is either good or bad. Take for example, the school shootings, most recently in Connecticut. I wish people would stop saying that it was because so and so was bullied, a loner, and such what not. Or the adults saying that they had no idea, or that nothing was reported. They are both such cop outs. I WAS BULLIED, STALKED, and HURT. There was not even one time that I ever thought to turn my pain on those that would do that. I just wished that they would get to know me.
Really, what is so wrong with me? Don't we as a people get enough of being told what society wants us to hear. Look at the glorification of selfish behavior, and zero self-accountability. One of facebook friends shared a story on how a child that is supposedly ADHD and OCD said that she needed to be a leader in this group, because they needed to do what she told them to do. What is my generation and younger teaching their progeny? That it's not their problem, but someone else's. You don't have to do the work, but you will get all the rewards. Society's code of conduct isn't even stable, look at what happens if a girl believes a guys' pleading. She is a slut, but he is stud. They both have that sin, yes I said that evil word and I will say it again, sin but only one is stoned in societies purview.
Instead, of saying that kids can be cruel, lets take the time to teach our children what is acceptable and what is not. I mean it! Stop watching the comedies that say it is amusing, if someone gets hurt by what another says or does, or the shows that say that it is alright if you don't apply yourself, as long as you meet the public's image of beauty and popularity.
I say it is time for a new kind of revolution. Not a revolution of blood, but of returning to kindness, simplicity, LOVE. Take the time, to teach character, that its alright if things don't go the way you have wanted. That putting someone else before yourself is strength, not weakness. If someone isn't liked, or doesn't seem to have any aquaintaces, to say the least. DON"T LET THEM SHUT YOU OUT!!!! And, I am talking from personal experience. I have a very difficult time talking about myself. Because, most people wouldn't show me the kindness of getting to know me and finding my interesting.
DRAW THEM OUT!!!!
I can list all of my insecurities that society says that means that I am not worthy. One, for example, I have a slight speech impediment. Years of speech therapy and I still have to work on how I say the words, or if I have the correct word. So, I will never be a wonderful oratator, and some times my spelling will not be correct.I am human, oh wait we are all human.
